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by: Debra S.
Gorin, M.D.
Depression is
a disorder marked by sadness, low energy, impaired concentration,
and feelings of dejection. Some people believe that depression is
normal. Hectic daily activities and the conflict between family
and career cause constant stress. Yet depression and anxiety as
a response to stress are not normal. They can be signs of illness,
which may worsen and result in physical symptoms or an inability
to function.
Life was much
simpler for the last two generations. Father worked; mother stayed
home. This is no longer the model. Some now view families as an
“endangered species.” There are more single mothers working than
ever before. There is greater stress and competition for well-paying
jobs. The result: long hours at work, away from the family. Children
are raised with limited supervision. Thus we see more children with
emotional problems derived from a lack of knowledge as to who they
are and what their role is in today’s society. Similarly, adults
suffer from the loss of nurturing that family time should provide.
Until recently,
mental health was not discussed openly. However, there is a growing
awareness that choosing therapy can be helpful, even necessary,
to cope with today’s life. Psychiatric help is often sought for
the entire family. Today, being healthy means not only having a
sound body, but also a sound mind and spirit.
People exercise
their bodies daily, yet they neglect to “exercise” their feelings
and emotions. Young men are taught to hide and deny emotions. Women
are reluctant to seek help in coping with their depression, anxiety,
or distressed relationship. The same fitness fanatic who exercises
daily, eats right and has two physicals a year will neglect the
mind until a crisis is reached. Emotional problems don’t just happen,
but are cumulative and they can be avoided at times with the same
“daily fitness” and “annual physical” approach we use when caring
for our bodies.
The Chinese
say “the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.”
Just like it’s better to maintain a healthy heart than recover from
a heart attack, dealing with emotional issues is easier before the
chaos of a crisis breaks. Think about “exercising your emotions"
and give your mental health professional a call.
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About the author: Debra S. Gorin, M.D. received her medical degree
from the University of Miami School of Medicine. She is a diplomate
of the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology. She has been
in private practice as a Psychiatrist in the Fort Lauderdale area
for the past sixteen years. Dr. Gorin treats all types of stress-related,
emotional and psychiatric problems of children, adolescents, and
adults. Please visit her website http://www.doctorgorin.com
to view her growing library of psychiatric and health-related articles.
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