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by:
Dr. Nancy Olthoff
You
may think some of the ideas below are pretty far out and perhaps
downright Weird...
But
that's okay. These are ways Real people have used to cope with Stress.
Here's
the thing...just read through these and choose one or two and see
how they work for you. You know what they say. Different strokes
for different folks. So just pick a couple to start with, and see
how they help you.
They're
not in any particular order. Simply read through the list. See what
"jumps out" at you. Don't try to do too many at once. (You may stress
yourself out even more.)
1.
Hide a Toy in Your Pocket
What?
How will that help you say?
It
will remind you each time you stick your hand in your pocket, not
to take life too seriously.
Remember
how you felt when you were a child and life was carefree? Grab on
to that feeling each time your fingers touch that toy.
2.
Schedule Your Worry
If
you have stress that comes from worrying, do this:
When
you start to worry, tell yourself you're not going to worry about
it now, that you've set a time to worry. Say, each day between 7
and 7:30 pm, you've scheduled as Worry Time.
When
it's 7, then sit down. Better yet ---- Pace the floor! Then WORRY!
Really
get into it! Worry BIG! Catastrophize!
Awfulize!
(I don't think that's a word, but you get the picture.) Worry like
you've never worried before!
You'll
feel really odd doing this, but go at it.
I know it sounds crazy, but trust me. I've recommended people do
this and it helped them.
No kidding!
3.
Do Something Silly :o)
Eat
Twinkies for breakfast or something.
I
know, Twinkies are junk food, but break your routine once in a while.
It's good for you.
4.
Curl Your Toes
Huh?
Yes, tighten your toes for 15" as tightly as you can, then relax.
Do this with all muscle groups up through your body. All the way
up. Finish with wrinkling up your face. It works.
5.
Grab Your Pillow and Beat the Heck out of the Bed
(If
you've got a feather pillow, be sure to check for holes first!)
Beating
on the bed is good for releasing stress that comes from anger.
I
knew a lady who actually put a punching bag in her basement just
for getting out her anger!
She
swore by it.
6.
Don't Answer the Phone/Door/Cell Phone/ Pager...
(Say,
Does anybody out there still have a pager?)
Sometimes
you don't feel like talking to anyone, right?
Give
yourself a break and don't.
7.
Nuts -- Eat Nuts!
Good
for "anger stress" to crunch on something.
Go ahead. Take out all your aggression on the Nuts. They won't mind!
You
could eat crunchy raw veggies, but the nuts are better.
8.
Get good at Procrastinating
Egad!
Heresy? Sometimes it's the very best thing you can do for yourself.
Ask
yourself, "Will something Awful happen if I put this off til later,
to cut myself some slack?"
If you answer No, then put it off, as long as possible.
9. Act Like a 2 Year Old
They're
Real Good at saying No, aren't they?
You gotta take care of yourself.
If
you don't, who will?
Say
No more often to the demands others want to heap on you.
10.
Act Like an 84 Year Old Now wait a minute! You just told me to act
like a 2 year old.
Now
you're saying act like an 84 year old?
What's
up with that?
Well,
here's it is.
When you're in stressful situation, ask yourself...
"How
would my 84 year old future self handle this or say about this?"
See
what wisdom surfaces from within you.
So
there you have it, the 10 unusual stress tips.
I
sincerely hope these ideas will be helpful to you.
To
Your Health
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About the author: Dr. Nancy Olthoff lives in Apache Junction, AZ,
with her husband and 2 mini dachshunds. Mini dachshunds are great
stress reducers! :0) For years she practiced as a psychologist.
Now she is helping people reduce their stress in an entirely different
way...... http://im-services.com/cgi-bin/r/go/1
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