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by:
Jane Thurnell-Read
This
is a fantastic tip from Touch For Health to help you when you're
stressed, angry, anxious or upset. Try holding your frontal eminences.
These are bumps on your forehead that many people hold instinctively
when they're upset.
For
those of you who don't do this naturally, let me help you locate
them. Feel up from the middle of your eyebrows going towards your
hairline. Your forehead comes outwards before it curves back in
towards the hairline. Hold your forehead at the points where it
is furthest out - about 3cms (1.25 inches) above the middle of each
eyebrow.
While
you hold these points think about the stressful event. It can be
something that has already happened, something that is about to
happen, or something you fear may never happen! Gradually you should
find that the stress lessens.
You
can use it for small things, but you can also use it for more traumatic
events too. If the thoughts/images are too overwhelming initially,
imagine you are watching it on a TV - you can always switch it off
if becomes too stressful - you're the one in charge. You can watch
it in black and white if that feels easier too. Use it to defuse
anything that you feel anxious, stressed, angry or fearful about.
You
may want to do it several times covering different aspects of the
problem. You can do them one after the other, or at different times,
whichever feels best for you.
As
you hold the points and think about/imagine the event, you will
probably start to feel calmer - you may even find that you start
to feel a little bored thinking about this scenario that previously
stressed or angered you so much.
Why
does it work?
These
particular points on the forehead, known as frontal eminences, are
reflex points with connections to the central meridian (involved
with the brain), the stomach meridian (and your stomach often churns
when you're anxious or angry), and the bladder meridian (trips to
the loo/bathroom are often necessary when we're apprehensive).
I
recently explained this self-help technique to a business colleague
- a keen mountain biker who'd had a serious bike accident at 30
miles an hour and had broken his skull and collar bone. His bones
had mended, but he was now sometimes fearful of the sport he loved.
This
is what he wrote to me later:
"I
don't know how to thank you enough for the technique you described
to me over the phone the other day, it helped me enormously!"
The
following week he sent me this message:
"Your
tip worked once again last night - went out (in the pitch black
with my Light&Motion 'daylighter' light) and did some serious single-tracking
and downhilling!!! I never thought I'd be doing that again - ever!
Thank you so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It was brilliant!!!!!!!"
It
may be hard to believe that something this simple could be effective
in removing anxiety and stress, but try it and see.
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About the author: Life should be simple - do you agree? Then take
a look at Jane Thurnell-Read's web site (http://www.healthandgoodness.com)
for more self-help tips and information. Here's a direct link to
that section:
http://www.healthandgoodness.com/topics/Self-Help/index.htm
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