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by:
Chris Green
If
you’re feeling like everything is getting on top of you, or you’re
finding it difficult to cope or function, or you’re feeling down
in the dumps, then try these 5 easy-to-do tips to relieve tension
and stress and boost your spirits:
1.
Take a relaxing bath. Add music, candles and a glass of your favourite
drink: beer, tea, hot chocolate, wine or even champagne. Close the
door and forget about everything else for an hour or so. This helps
to increase levels of calmness and the calmer we feel, the less
likely we are to get stressed out or depressed.
2.
Comedy night: get in your favourite nibbles: chips, tortillas, salsa,
crackers, cheese, pizza, chocolate, cookies, ice cream etc. Crack
open a bottle of wine or pour yourself a beer or two and spend a
full evening watching your favourite funny films or comedians. Laughter
raises our spirits and is a great antidote to the stresses and trials
of modern living.
3.
Get out of the firing line: Take off for some peace and quiet for
a day or better still a weekend or a week. Take a journal, relax
and gather your thoughts. When we’re under pressure or struggling
to cope with a major situation or event in life, seeing solutions
to our problems can be really difficult. Distance from problems
can bring clarity and relieve tension. I love going to the coast
when I feel like this and it always, without fail, helps me to calm
down and find solutions. I don’t know why but there’s something
really soothing about being near the ocean. Being near water, come
to think of it.
4.
Increase calmness and feel great by indulging in massage. Share
a massage with your partner – create a relaxing atmosphere by softening
the lights and have oils and towels to hand. Lavender oil is particularly
relaxing. Or, treat yourself to a massage from a professional masseur
or masseuse. For a really invigorating massage, visit a Turkish
baths if you’re fortunate enough to have one nearby. Massage is
very relaxing and increases intimacy between lovers. It’s one huge
stress buster as well but be warned, it’s addictive! Not a bad thing
to be addicted to though, and it will do you no end of good.
5.
Spend a week without watching any television. Television can fill
your mind with negativity, bombard you with image manipulation via
commercials and give you a distorted view of reality by showing
you everything that’s bad about the world. Famines, disasters, murders,
violence, war – the list is endless – and news programmes and soap
operas are full of such events. So give your mind a break from this
assault on your senses. Abandon the television for a week and do
something more rewarding instead: Read a book, listen to music,
socialize, workout, go for a walk or try your hand at something
new. If you need to hear the news, listen to a radio news bulletin
once a day. But try and avoid them for one week, replace them with
something more life enhancing and see how you feel.
The
above ideas are very simple to implement but they are also very
effective in helping to relieve stress and tension. Give them a
try and watch your mood levels rise!
Until
next time.
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About the author: Chris Green is the author of the new acclaimed
book "Conquering Stress", the complete guide to beating stress,
depression and anxiety, quickly, naturally and permanently. Click
Here==>http://www.conqueringstress.com
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