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By
John Moore
We all know what it feels like to get emotionally mangled by the
weight of day to day struggles. Our bosses yell at us, our spouses
yell at us - it feels like an endless circle where getting ahead
at the office can leave us with so little energy for home that home
turns into battlefield that leaves us with no energy for work.
Is mere survival all you can ask of a hassle-filled world ? No.
Stress, in fact is not only something you can beat, but a force
you can turn into an advantage. You don't have to run from it, and
you don't need any special stress management. The following tested
tips show you how to combat stress - and win.
Work
On Your Attitude
The
most important point you can make about stress is that in most cases
it's not what's out there that's the problem, its how you react
to it. Changing the way you think can change a life of stress and
discomfort to a life of challenge and excitement.
Think
About Something Else
Distract
yourself - to break the thoughts that are producing your stress,
you must think about something else. Anything will do, as long as
it breaks the chain of bad thoughts.
Think
Positive
Thinking
about a success or a past achievement is excellent when you're feeling
uncertain, remind yourself of all the good things you've achieved
in the past, and tell yourself that you're going to do the same
in the future.
Take
A Mental Vacation
Imagine
yourself lying in warm sand on a beach in the Bahamas, a cool wind
blowing off the ocean, the surf rolling in quietly in the background.
It's amazing what this can do to help you relax.
Take
Deap Breaths
Belly
breathing is what some people call it. It's an old and useful trick
for defeating anxiety and nervousness. The basic idea is act calm,
be calm. When your experiencing stress, your pulse races and you
start breathing very quickly. Forcing yourself to breathe slowly
convinces the body that the stress has gone, whether it has or not.
The correct way to breathe is abdominally - feeling the stomach
expand as you inhale, and collapse as you exhale.
Stretch
A
lot of us respond to stress with muscle tension. Ideally, we'd prefer
to eliminate the cause of the stress, but stretching the muscles
at least reduces the sensation of stress - the muscles relax, and
we feel less tense.
Take
A Hot Soak
Hot
water works by defeating the stress response. When we're tense and
anxious, blood flow to our extremities is reduced. Hot water restores
circulation, convincing the body it's safe and that it's ok to relax.
Cols water must not be used because it has the opposite effect,
and will increase tension. An office alternative might be running
hot water over your hands until you feel the tension starting to
drain away.
Excercise
Regular
exercise will burn off some of the stress chemicals tension produces,
and exercise will tire your musles - a tired muscle is a relaxed
muscle.
Listen
To Music
Music
soothes as perhaps nothing else does. You can use it in two basic
ways - to relax or to inspire. New - Age music is very relaxing.
I
trust these points will be of benefit to your wellbeing. Thank you
for reading my article.
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About the author:
This article was born out of my own problems with stress.
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