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We
all have this favorite expression when it comes to being stressed
out, and I wouldn't bother naming all of them since it may also
vary in different languages. But when it comes down to it, I think
that it is how we work or even relax, for that matter that triggers
stress. Ever been stressed even when you're well relaxed and bored?
I know I have.
Since
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is important to find ways to decrease and prevent stressful incidents
and decrease negative reactions to stress. Here are some of the
things that can be done by just remembering it, since life is basically
a routine to follow like brushing your teeth or eating breakfast.
You can do a few of them in a longer span of time, but as they say--
every minute counts.
Managing
time
Time
management skills can allow you more time with your family and friends
and possibly increase your performance and productivity. This will
help reduce your stress.
To
improve your time management:
- Save time
by focusing and concentrating, delegating, and scheduling time
for yourself.
- Keep a record
of how you spend your time, including work, family, and leisure
time.
- Prioritize
your time by rating tasks by importance and urgency. Redirect
your time to those activities that are important and meaningful
to you.
- Manage your
commitments by not over- or undercommitting. Don't commit to what
is not important to you.
- Deal with
procrastination by using a day planner, breaking large projects
into smaller ones, and setting short-term deadlines.
- Examine your
beliefs to reduce conflict between what you believe and what your
life is like.
- Build healthy
coping strategies
It
is important that you identify your coping strategies. One way to
do this is by recording the stressful event, your reaction, and
how you cope in a stress journal. With this information, you can
work to change unhealthy coping strategies into healthy ones-those
that help you focus on the positive and what you can change or control
in your life.
Lifestyle
Some
behaviors and lifestyle choices affect your stress level. They may
not cause stress directly, but they can interfere with the ways
your body seeks relief from stress. Try to:
- Balance personal,
work, and family needs and obligations.
- Have a sense
of purpose in life.
- Get enough
sleep, since your body recovers from the stresses of the day while
you are sleeping.
- Eat a balanced
diet for a nutritional defense against stress.
- Get moderate
exercise throughout the week.
- Limit your
consumption of alcohol.
- Don't smoke.
Social
Support
Social
support is a major factor in how we experience stress. Social support
is the positive support you receive from family, friends, and the
community. It is the knowledge that you are cared for, loved, esteemed,
and valued. More and more research indicates a strong relationship
between social support and better mental and physical health.
Changing
Thinking
When
an event triggers negative thoughts, you may experience fear, insecurity,
anxiety, depression, rage, guilt, and a sense of worthlessness or
powerlessness. These emotions trigger the body's stress, just as
an actual threat does. Dealing with your negative thoughts and how
you see things can help reduce stress.
- Thought-stopping
helps you stop a negative thought to help eliminate stress.
- Disproving
irrational thoughts helps you to avoid exaggerating the negative
thought, anticipating the worst, and interpreting an event incorrectly.
- Problem solving
helps you identify all aspects of a stressful event and find ways
to deal with it.
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Changing your communication style helps you communicate in a way
that makes your views known without making others feel put down,
hostile, or intimidated. This
reduces the stress that comes from poor communication. Use the assertiveness
ladder to improve your communication style.
Even
writers like me can get stressed even though we're just using our
hands to do the talking, but having to sit for 7 or 8 hours is already
stressful enough and have our own way to relieve stress. Whether
you're the mail guy, the CEO, or probably the average working parent,
stress is one unwanted visitor you would love to boot out of your
homes, especially your life.
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